Tips on How to Get Along with People
為人之道
1. Keep chains on your tongue; always say less than you think. Cultivate a pleasant, persuasive voice. How you say it often counts more than what you say.
說話要謹(jǐn)慎；多想少說。說話要令人高興，循循善誘。怎么說比說什么更重要。
2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully.
不輕易許諾；答應(yīng)了的事就一定要做。
3. Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind word to somebody. Praise good work done, regardless of who did it.
切勿錯過贊揚(yáng)他人的機(jī)會。無論是誰做的工作，只要出色，就不要吝惜贊揚(yáng)。
4. Be genuinely interested in others. Let everyone you meet feel that you regard him or her as a person of importance.
對人報以真誠的關(guān)注。讓每個遇到你的人都感到他（她）是重要的。
5. Be cheerful. Keep the corners of your mouth turned up. Hide your pains, worries, and disappointments under a smile.
精神飽滿，嘴角上翹。將痛苦、憂愁與失望藏于微笑之下。
6. Keep an open mind on all controversial questions. Discuss without arguing. It is possible to disagree and yet be friendly.
對有爭議的事不存偏見。討論而不爭吵。意見不同歸不同，朋友還是朋友。
7. Never engage in gossip. Make it a rule to say nothing about another unless it is something good.
不聽不傳小道消息。訂一條規(guī)矩，不背后說人，除非說好話。
8. Be careful of other people's feelings. A laugh at another's expense is rarely worth the effort, and it may hurt where least expected.
體貼他人的感情。嘲笑他人會得不償失，還可能造成意料不到的傷害。
9. Pay no attention to cutting remarks that others may make about you. Learn to live above such comments.
不要在意別人對你的尖刻評論。學(xué)會超脫。
10. Don't be too anxious about your rights and having favors repaid. Let the satisfaction of helping others serve as its own best reward.
不急于求回報。把幫助他人而得到的欣慰作為其最好的回報。
※本文作者：佚名※